Incorporating Constructional Affection in Dog Training into Stationing
Constructional affection in dog training is an innovative approach that emphasizes the mutual exchange of feedback between the dog and handler, fostering affectionate behaviors rather than assuming they are innate. By pairing gentle touches, soothing voices, and calm environments with positive experiences, we create a strong foundation for a deep, trusting bond. This method is particularly effective in mat training for puppies, as it transforms the mat into not just a place to stay, but a source of comfort and positive attention for the puppy.
Start when you notice pup has gone to mat to chill out on their own accord. Approach softly and use a consistent, warm voice to create a relaxing atmosphere.
Protip: Can lure over with a treat or a licky toy smeared with something delicious.
When pup approaches the mat, offer gentle pets or scratches as they step on.
Protip: Pay attention to your pup's body language to find their favorite spots for affection. Discontinue or change to using treats if the pup becomes visibly aroused.
As pup settles on the mat, continue with calm, sustained petting.
Protip: Long, slow strokes along sides of the body, circles on the chest, or gentle ear rubs often work well.
Note: Quietly watch if pup gets up to leave the bed—don’t try to convince them to stay. Make note of how you were touching or what happened in the room right before they left.
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If pup remains calm on the mat, gradually increase the duration of your affectionate touch.
Protip: Start with 5–10 seconds and work up to 30 seconds or more of continuous petting.
Should pup become excited or try to leave the mat, pause the affection briefly.
Protip: Resume gentle petting when pup settles back into a calm state.
Introduce a soothing verbal cue like "relax" or "settle" while petting.
Protip: Use a soft, low tone to avoid exciting your pup.
Occasionally interspersed treats with the petting, placing them between pup's paws on the mat, or along their body (still on the mat).
Protip: This combines food rewards with affection, reinforcing the mat as a place of comfort.
Bonus: Pup is moving their head and body while remaining on the mat, lessening the boredom of the exercise making them more likely to stay.
Practice this 2–3 times daily for 2–10 minutes each session.
Protip: Keep sessions short and sweet to maintain pup's interest and prevent overstimulation. It’s fine to stop petting and simply sit nearby sharing air perhaps you can yawn a bit to encourage a nap.
Move to the next phase when pup consistently remains calm on the mat during petting sessions and shows signs of enjoying the affectionate interaction.
Remember, the goal is to make the mat a haven of calm and positive experiences for your pup through calm behavior training for dogs.
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